I’m An Atheist Guy, Should I Date A Christian Girl?
Many people think that Christian dating is an exclusive thing, a club where only members are allowed. To a certain extent, this is true, since the whole point of Christian dating is for Christians to meet other Christians and potentially start a relationship. However, no one will kick you out from a Christian dating website, a Christian club or any other group, just because you are not a Christian yourself. The whole point of Christianity is to spread the love and the world of Jesus.
If you are not a Christian yourself, and not a religious person either, you are probably thinking “I have no use for those Christian dating sites, those girls only want to date other Christians,” so you don’t even try. But as we said earlier, that is a misconception because those websites are open to all and people will be glad to meet you. Another thing you might be wondering is whether it is a good idea for you as an atheist to date a Christian girl? We’ll try to answer that question in this article.
First of all, let’s get one thing straight – atheists and Christians are not enemies. You and a Christian girl are not Romeo and Juliet. The most important thing about any person in the world is their heart. If your heart is good and kind, then it doesn’t matter whether you call yourself an atheist or a Christian. This is particularly important when it comes to love.
This means that a Christian girl will not reject you simply for being an atheist. Allow her to get to know you and we are sure she’ll grow to love you as a person and as a man, regardless of your faith (or the lack thereof).
The other question that is being asked here is whether you should even try dating Christian girls, or you should stick to atheist girls instead? Well, it’s up to you, of course, if faith and religion put you off for some reason then by all means, don’t date them, but there are a few things you should know about Christian girls.
Christian girls make excellent girlfriends. This may sound like an awful stereotype, but it’s actually true, at least in most cases. This is all thanks to some good old Christian virtues, which were instilled in them by their parents and the church. Christian girls are (or are supposed to be) kind and patient, understanding and caring. They are great listeners, because they care about other human beings. They also care about other beings, such as animals, and are very good with them. These are some amazing qualities, aren’t they? Pretty much all you ever wanted from a girlfriend or a wife. That’s one of the main reasons you should definitely try dating a Christian girl.
One issue that bothers many atheists or non-Christians is the matter of celibacy. It is widely believed that Christian girls are saving themselves for marriage. Again, to a great extent, this is true, but it’s not always the case. So let’s take a look at two scenarios. In one, your girlfriend, who is a devout Christian, has vowed herself to celibacy until marriage. She does not want to have sex and you, of course, are respecting her decision. Is it such as bad thing? Have you not had enough of meaningless sex? Is sex that important, after all? And what is more important – having a great friend, a companion, someone who knows your heart and who helps you in the times of need, someone who is always there for you and who is also funny, smart and fun to be around? Or someone you don’t necessarily like as a person but who is always open for sex? Be honest to yourself and we know you’ll come to the conclusion that, when it comes to romance and dating, there are definitely more important things than sex.
On the other hand, there are many Christian girls who are not celibate. Yes, it is possible – you can be religious and full of faith and still practice safe, loving sex. But bear in mind that we are not talking about mindless, pointless, loveless sex with multiple partners here. We are talking about a beautiful act between two consenting adults who love each other and who see that act as a physical manifestation of their affection and devotion to one another. In many religions, sex is a holy act. So it’s entirely possible to find a Christian girl who is not saving herself for her husband but she’s not promiscuous or reckless either.
Now that we’ve tackled that one hard question, let’s see some other good reasons for dating a Christian girl. For instance, Christian girls are very responsible and fair. They will not stand you up, keep you waiting or make you look like a fool. You can always count on a Christian girl to keep up her word, and that’s unfortunately a rare thing these days. Furthermore, Christian girls are, like we already said, very kind and warm and caring, and they will make you feel incredibly appreciated and cared for, which is an amazing feeling.
You can also learn a lot from a Christian girl. Christianity is a great religion with great history and it’s full of stories and morals that can be applied outside the faith too, in everyday life. You will become a better person by dating a Christian girl and your life will be richer and more meaningful. Who knows, maybe you will even open up to the faith.